王金泽 湖南省南方中学 Beautiful are the moments when we are cheering for success, but how grey it is when success is replaced by failure. Expressly, where there is success, there is failure. It is a kind of inevitability. But,” When one door is closed,” as the old saying goes, “another will be open. Most of the time we ignore the open one, for we stares at the closed one too much. “ So I’d like to make an analysis. To start with, let’s put the causes of failure-upset in the first place. Surely, to reach a goal, we’ll all do all we can for we all think that success is so important. Unavoidably, we’ll feel a universe of upsets when failure comes down. Why me? I’ve been so hardworking! So the unacceptance (nonacceptance) when we’ve made so much effort becomes the root reason that shuting (shuts) our doors to success, but to cause pains. For the sadness after failure, I’ve got some advice. First and foremost, you’ve got to know that it’s no use crying over the spilt milk and rise up once again to face the music and get out of the blue. Undoubtedly, success is important and we are born to be successful. But it is not all about success that we’re fighting for. Life is a voyage, (插入and) the scenery along the way is also worth enjoying. Then I’d like to mention that we should find the open door, make effort, and then go into the door. Thinking from another angle, aren’t we reaching the success after failure? Then I’d like to discuss about the balance between success and failure. Accompanied with success, failure seems to be a child which (who) is out of our plan. So why don’t we call it as a surprise? Surprise brings new comer to our life, like failure, and I always assume that it is the one that gives me the power to go on my journey, for I haven’t gain my success yet. If you comprehend this, then the balance between these two is easy to hold. To summarize, my opinions are quite clear. Success is important but not as water; failure is horrible but not as devil. Absolutely, success-happiness is easier to handle while failure-upset is hard. Above all, I just want to ten that in this long journey, we can always find another open door and we will.
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